In Limbo

Ryan,

I have known this guy for a while now. At least a few years. I first met him because we worked together. At the time he had a girlfriend and we would talk and flirt back and forth, but nothing more. We kept in contact on and off through the years and he is now single. We talk on the phone, and he seems like he likes me and wants to date, but he only calls when its convenient (which is late in the evening) and we rarely go out in public. Once we went to a bar, but it was a hole in the wall type place. I want something more, but when I try to bring it up he avoids the conversation. What should I do?

Signed,

In Limbo