Response to In Limbo

Dear In Limbo,

It sort of sounds like you may be the rebound girl. No, you are the rebound girl. He was in a relationship and now is not and avoids the conversation of dating exclusively. While he may be interested, he might not be ready to get back on the horse. Not going out in public and calling late or at odd times equals the rebound girl. He wants the closeness of being with someone without the drama. There is a reason why he is single again. I would try asking him what happened in his last relationship that ended it. If he shares, then that can give you some insight into what he needs to move on. It is also a good sign that he opening up to you. If not, then he might just need some space and time to get some closure. If you are willing to wait it out and take the chance they might get back together and cause you some unwanted hurt, then by all means go ahead. Other wise keep looking for Mr. Right, not Mr. Right Now.

Ryan